If a person has experienced multiple setbacks, betrayals, and crises, and still maintains a kind heart, it is truly admirable.

For example, for someone who is discontented, although they can clearly expose it in a few words or use more effective means to strike back, they choose to brake at the critical moment, be magnanimous, let go of everything, and maintain compassion. They will find that their situation remains unchanged, bright and clear.

Many people experience the changes of the world, as if they have already achieved a heart that does not depend on others, cold and indifferent. But in reality, it is easy to get lost without the protection of compassion, and one may resort to any means and deviate further from the right path.

Compassion is not about being weak without principles, but about taking a principled stand, not dancing with illusions, not inviting trouble, being kind to oneself and others, and building good relationships.

Diamond hands and Bodhisattva heart, complement each other.

Having a temper can only be used appropriately, occasionally, to ensure a certain order remains intact. However, one must not become accustomed to it, otherwise, while being controlled by it, all possibilities can also be easily cut off.

A quick temper seems to make others fear and dread, but if you indulge in it, you will only trap yourself, because it will keep escalating, making you angrier and angrier. Others will avoid you, and it will be difficult to have a good social environment, leading to a negative cycle.

Personal experience has taught me that many times, even if the other party was at fault first, if they have a good attitude later, I will hold back many truths that are very hurtful, not because of fear, but out of compassion. It may seem like not enough to strike with a knife, but in the long run, it has left me with a broader space and retreat.

Do not hesitate in the errors of others, so as not to lose compassion, come back soon, when your strength gradually returns and the potential weakens, naturally you will not care about it.

At this time, it is more clear to see the limitations of everyone without a clear mind and insight. At that time, they did not lend a helping hand, not because they did not want to, but because they could not do so with their limited vision. To say it is selfish, when everyone is blinded by ignorance, it is inevitable to be selfish from their own perspective.

There are also times when they are difficult to protect themselves. When the time is not right and there is no key, it is difficult to open the good knowledge and right view. Instead of relying on complaints, it is better to become the light itself and be in a situation of constant brightness. The people around you will definitely be touched by this spark of light, and you can become a good touch for others.

You can tell him that the key is here, but don't force it. When he hits the wall, turn around immediately when the time comes.

At this time, we should avoid adding insult to injury and criticizing others. Everyone has self-respect and self-love, but it is fortunate that you have done well, and this karma has turned from a negative one to a positive one.

Wishing you a kind and pure heart, bright and clear.